Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Summer Tag

1. What is your go-to product for a sun kissed summer glow? (bronzer, self tanner, etc.)

I don't use anything like that

2. What book would you recommend for a summer read?

The House of Night Series.

3. What's your signature summer scent this year?

Japanese Cherry Blossom

4. The sun is shining and it's time to get outside! What's your favorite thing to do?

Be in the pool

5. You're on the boardwalk and your stomach is grumbling. What's your go-to summer beach food?

Funnel cake!

6. Sunscreen is always important, but it's a MUST in summer! What's your favorite? (Face, body, or both)

Neutrogena Dry sunscreen

7. After a day in the summer sun and heat, what do you do to cool off?

Jump in the pool

8. How do you wear your hair in the summer? (down, ponytail, ombre, dip dye, etc.)

In the pool? Down. Out and about? Depends

9. Must-have nail polish for summer 2014?

NickaK

10. Sometimes it just feels good to chill out and watch Netflix. What shows/movies do you recommend for summer?

Death Note and Red Vs Blue

11. Do you wear liquid foundation, BB cream, or tinted moisturizer in the summer?

liquid foundation

12. It's super bright outside! Do you reach for sunglasses or a hat?

Sunglasses

13. What is your summer jam this year?

Whatever is on the radio

14. Do you have a summer bucket list? If so, share some things on the list.
Grilling and parties

15. Bikini, tankini, or one piece? Show us your fave bathing suit this year!

Usually a bikini.

16. Summer means heat... and sweat! What's your favorite sweat proof product this year? (Skincare, makeup, anything!)
Ummm.. None of my makeup is sweatproof.

17. Summer wouldn't be complete without a scoop (or two) of ice cream! If you could create your own ice cream flavor, what would it be?



Friday, July 25, 2014

Fresh Start Challenge Day 23: Recently


#1: I don't like taking pictures of myself. Like at all.
#2. I love to write even if I'm not good at it.
#3. Music is my life
#4. I am addicted to Red Vs Blue.
#5. Sven is my favorite male Disney character.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 22: Age Old Question

Everyone has that one thing they will always look back on and think "What if?". I have several but the one that sticks out the most is what if it was my fault? What if I did drive him to abuse me? I wasn't the best girlfriend to him, the fights weren't ever one sided. It was always both of us. I will admit that I did not just sit idly by while he was yelling in my face. There were probably fights that I instigated or made worse by me firing back at him. I will always wonder if things could have gone differently or at the very least not as bad as things got. I wonder if, in addition to forgiving him, do I need to forgive myself? Did I contribute to the pain that was inflicted? Are the repercussions I feel to this day partially my fault? If I were to ask him, I'm sure he would fully blame me. I was mean, a bitch, and whatever else he could come up with to shift the blame from him to me.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 21: Same Old Thing

Before I got married, my dad sat me down and talked to me about all the things that will come with marriage. His warning has always stuck with me: One of the biggest reasons for divorce is money problems. I didn't see how money was that big of a deal at that time. Now I see what he meant. 95% of the arguments me and Matt have are about money or things that involve money. He tends to want to spend, spend, spend and I would rather put the money in a savings account for emergencies. Money is a huge issue with married couples.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 20: My Favorite Quotes

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.- Albus Dumbledore

Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. - Eleanor Roosevelt

You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth. - William W. Purkey

I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear. - Rosa Parks

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. - Anne Frank

I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions. - Stephen Covey

Change your thoughts and you change your world. - Norman Vincent Peale

Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor. -Sholom Aleichem

Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing. - Benjamin Franklin

The great use of life is to spend it for something that will out last it. - William James

You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. - Beverly Sills

There is no try, only do.

Never say goodbye. If you don’t say goodbye, then you aren't really gone. You just aren't here right now.

You can never makes the same mistake twice. The second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake it is a choice. - Lauren Conrad

When I was 5 years old my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when i grew up. I wrote down “Happy”. They told me I didn't understand the assignment, and I told them they didn't understand life. - John Lennon

Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. - Albert Einstein

The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. - Ayn Rand

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. - Maya Angelou

Certain things catch your eye, but pursue only those that capture the heart.

Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. - George Addair

Bonus just for Adam:
PROTECT ME CONE!

Monday, May 12, 2014

Fresh Start Challenge Day 17: Four Seasons

Favorite seasons in order from best to bad: Autumn, Spring, Summer, Winter

Autumn brings bonfires/campfires, Halloween, crunchy leaves, ghost stories, and smores.

Spring brings rain, flowers, butterflies, blossoming trees/bushes, and perfect days to sit outside on a porch with the breeze flowing around me.

Summer brings water balloon fights, pool time, days at the river escaping the heat, and time spent spraying people with hoses.

Winter (ugh) brings barren trees, freezing cold weather, sometimes snow, and colds/flu. Nothing is good about winter.. Well nothing except hot chocolate and Christmas decorations.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 19: My Feel Good Drug


It is very rare that music doesn't help me feel better. Whether it is metal when I'm mad, country when I'm sad, or pop when I need a boost, music is a huge part of my daily life. Without it, I'm sure I wouldn't have made it as far as I have.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 18: My Inspirations

My inspiration to start blogging was +Odette. Her blog is absolutely amazing and I am so glad she started blogging again.  The inspiration to pull down my previous blog and to build up a completely new one also came from her.

The plan for the first blog was for it to just be a personal blog. A place for me to express how I felt at any given time. For this blog, it is going to be so much more.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 16: Good Things

The best thing to happen to me in the past week was knowing I am moving on to bigger and better things starting next month. We begun to pack this week for our move to Huntsville. Plans were completely ironed out yesterday.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 15: Love Thyself

Let me count the ways:

1) The courage I have to stand up for myself.
2) I know my worth even if I don't feel it sometimes. 
3) I have a growing confidence in my body.
4) My talents.
5) My flaws.
6) My past.
7) The faith I have in God.
8) Learning how to apply makeup correctly (so much to learn! *_*)
9) Conquering my fears.
10) The ability to move past my pain and see the beauty around me.
11) Learning to let people in.
12) Learning that my nails do not have to always be short and that nail polish is my friend.
13) Learning to forgive.
14) The ability to stand on my own two feet with my back straight and my head high.
15) The ability to write 15 things I love about myself.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 14: Pinterest Trick

I haven't really found a Pinterest trick that I have used that actually worked. That will probably change as the month progresses and I start going to Pinterest to look through moving tips and tricks.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 13: Dream Date

There are a few different ideas that go through my mind for this. Shopping, walks on the beach, a picnic in the middle of nowhere...

In all reality I do believe that my dream date would be towels thrown down on a river bank while we are swimming in the water (clothes optional).The soothing sound of the water running over the rocks in the background. A campfire not far from us, crackling and popping and waiting for us to cozy up to it while roasting marshmallows for smores.

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Who Am I?

I am the girl most likely to have her nose in a book, far away from reality and society. I am so much more than just another girl, however. I stand firm in my beliefs as well as my word. I will bend over backwards for my friends. I give people way too many chances even after the point where they are deserved, I will still give chances. In my past, I have suffered for giving my forgiveness. I am so much more than what you see on the outside. I am made up of my pain, my mistakes, my triumphs, and especially my tears. My past used to imprison me now it empowers me to be a better person, to do better things, to rise above the hatred I have felt for so long. I have had 2 miscarriages. Yes, I do cry sometimes over the loss but then I realize that I have two more precious angels watching over me. I know that my rainbow will happen in due time. I just have to wait out the storm.

With this blog I plan on doing reviews, first impressions, unboxing/unbagging, hauls, the occasional personal post, and hopefully picture tutorials. Make up tutorials, looming tutorials, and wire beading tutorials. I have several ideas for this blog that I hope to implement as time goes on. Stay tuned and we will all see what comes of it. :)

100 Questions No One Asks

100 Questions That No One Asks


QUESTIONS: BONUS JONAS QUESTION: something that happened to you in middle school.




Umm... I grabbed my best friend at the time by the throat and slammed her up against the wall



1:Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?



Closed



2:Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?



I'm never really at hotels enough to take the shampoos and conditioners.



3:Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?



Out



4:Have you ever stolen a street sign before?



Myself? No but I have been around when others have.



5:Do you like to use post-it notes?



Yes






6:Do you cut out coupons but then never use them?



No. I don't usually use coupons unless it's a code



7:Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees?



Bear. It wouldn't hurt as bad



8:Do you have freckles?



Yes



9:Do you always smile for pictures?



Planned? Usually



10:What is your biggest pet peeve?



Whiny people. I know I complain but this is more about the people who whine and complain ALL the time



11:Do you ever count your steps when you walk?



No



12:Have you ever peed in the woods?



Most likely but I'm not 100% sure



13:What about pooped in the woods?



This is embarrassing. Not in the woods but I have near a river..



14:Do you ever dance even if there's no music playing?



Yes



15:Do you chew your pens and pencils?



No



16:How many people have you slept with this week?



Slept with sexually? None. Slept beside? 1



17:What size is your bed?



Full



18:What is your Song of the week?



Every Storm (Runs Out of Rain) by Gary Allan



19:Is it okay for guys to wear pink?



Yes



20:Do you still watch cartoons?



Pokemon occasionally



21:Whats your least favorite movie?



Napoleon Dynamite



22:Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some?



My back yard.



23:What do you drink with dinner?



Depends



24:What do you dip a chicken nugget in?



Ketchup or Sweet and Sour



25:What is your favorite food?



Spaghetti



26:What movies could you watch over and over and still love?



Harry Potter, Underworld, and (give me hell I dare you) Twilight



27:Last person you kissed/kissed you?



Matt



28:Were you ever a boy/girl scout?



Yes.. Both



29:Would you ever strip or pose nude in a magazine?



Um probably not



30:When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper?



October and November of 2012



31:Can you change the oil on a car?



Never tried



32:Ever gotten a speeding ticket?



A few...



33:Ever ran out of gas?



Yes



34:Favorite kind of sandwich?



Mugshot's Middleberger (I know it says sandwich, too bad)



35:Best thing to eat for breakfast?



Breaksfast burritos or waffles



36:What is your usual bedtime?



Around 12 or 1, sometimes later



37:Are you lazy?



I can be.



38:When you were a kid, what did you dress up as for Halloween?



I was never allowed to dress up for Halloween when I was a kid



39:What is your Chinese astrological sign?



Horse



40:How many languages can you speak?



1



41:Do you have any magazine subscriptions?



Yes



42:Which are better legos or lincoln logs?



Legos



43:Are you stubborn?



Yes



44:Who is better...Leno or Letterman?



I don't watch either one



45:Ever watch soap operas?



Sparingly



46:Are you afraid of heights?



Yes



47:Do you sing in the car?



Yes



48:Do you sing in the shower?



Sometimes, usually I think in the shower



49:Do you dance in the car?



Yes



50:Ever used a gun?



Just for fun yes



51:Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?



Senior portraits



52:Do you think musicals are cheesy?



Some of them are



53:Is Christmas stressful?



Not really



54:Ever eat a pierogi?



No



55:Favorite type of fruit pie?



Not a fan of pie



56:Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?



A vet



57:Do you believe in ghosts?



Yes



58:Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?



Yes



59:Take a vitamin daily?



Not anymore



60:Wear slippers?



No



61:Wear a bath robe?



No



62:What do you wear to bed?



Depends how tired I am. Sometimes jeans. Usually yoga or pajama pants



63:First concert?



Paramore



64:Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?



Target



65:Nike or Adidas?



Nike



66:Cheetos Or Fritos?



Cheetos



67:Peanuts or Sunflower seeds?



Peanuts



68:Ever hear of the group Tres Bien?



No



69:Ever take dance lessons?



No



70:Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing?



Not really.



71:Can you curl your tongue?



No



72:Ever won a spelling bee?



No



73:Have you ever cried because you were so happy?



No



74:Own any record albums?



Nope



75:Own a record player?



No



76:Regularly burn incense?



No



77:Ever been in love?



Yes



78:Who would you like to see in concert?



In This Moment



79:What was the last concert you saw?



Papa Roach



80:Hot tea or cold tea?



Cold



81:Tea or coffee?



Coffee



82:Sugar or snickerdoodles?



Sugar



83:Can you swim well?



No



84:Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?



Yes



85:Are you patient?



Sometimes



86:DJ or band, at a wedding?



Neither really



87:Ever won a contest?



No



88:Ever have plastic surgery?



No



89:Which are better black or green olives?



Black



90:Can you knit or crochet?



Neither



91:Best room for a fireplace?



Living room



92:Do you want to get married?



I am married



93:If married, how long have you been married?



Almost 2 years



94:Who was your HS crush?



Oh God.. Dillen Haney til I found out the truth about him..



95:Do you cry and throw a fit until you get your own way?



No



96:Do you have kids?






No



97:Do you want kids?



Yes



98:Whats your favorite colors?



Red, Rose gold and black



99:Do you miss anyone right now?



Yes





TMI Tag




1: What are you wearing?
 



Alabama Crimson Tide Shirt

Mossimo Yoga Pants



2: Ever been in love?
 



Yes




3: Ever had a terrible breakup?
 



Yes



4: How tall are you?
 



5' 7"



5: How much do you weigh?
 



Can I just leave this blank?



6: Any tattoos?
 



None yet




7: Any piercings?
 



4



8: OTP?
 



Caroline and Klaus



9: Favourite show?
 



Reign, Pretty Little Liars, The Originals, The Vampire Diaries



10: Favourite bands?
 



Green Day, Maroon 5, Paramore, Shinedown, Simple Plan, Linkin Park, Sum 41, Three Days Grace, Good Charlotte, and 3 Doors Down



11: Something you miss?
 



Music from the 90s, little kids still having respect, people still respecting the Bible...



12: Favourite song?



Easier to Run by Linkin Park or Hold On by Good Charlotte



13: How old are you?
 



23



14: Zodiac sign?
 



Gemini




15: Quality you look for in a partner?
 



Common interests, accepting, good sense of humor



16: Favourite Quote?
 






Judge me & I'll prove you wrong.
Tell me what to do & I'll tell you off.
Say I'm not worth it & watch where I end up.
Call me a bitch & I'll show you one.
Screw me over & I'll do it to you twice as bad.
Call me crazy but you really have no idea.





17: Favourite actor?
 




Ian Somerhalder
 




18: Favourite color?
 



It varies. Usually red



19: Loud music or soft?
 



Loud
 



20: Where do you go when you're sad?
 



To bed or to my grandfather's grave



21: How long does it take you to shower?
 



In a hurry? 10 minutes. No rush? Until the water runs cold



22: How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?
 



An hour at most



23: Ever been in a physical fight?
 



Not really



24: Turn on?



Tenderness and understanding



25: Turn off?
 



Cockiness
 



26: The reason I started my blog?



I wanted to!



27: Fears?
 



Heights, spiders, and losing the people I care about



28: Last thing that made you cry?
 



My miscarriage



29: Last time you said you loved someone?
 



A couple hours ago



30: Meaning behind your blog name?
 



I just have an obsession with Phoenixes



31: Last book you read?
 



Portrait of a Killer by Patricia Cornwell



32: The book you're currently reading?



Not reading currently



33: Last show you watched?
 



Reign



34: Last person you talked to?
 



Jacob



35: The relationship between you and the person you last texted?
 



He is my husband



36: Favourite food?
 



Spaghetti



37: Place you want to visit?



Japan!!!



38: Last place you were?
 



Maryland



39: Do you have a crush?



Matt



40: Last time you kissed someone?
 



Matt and earlier today (BTW
 +Mary Ann Parker I spit Dr. Pepper everywhere when I read your answer to this)



41: Last time you were insulted?
 



10 minutes ago



42: Favourite flavour of sweet?
 



Chocolate



43: What instruments do you play?



Clarinet



44: Favourite piece of jewellery?



Engagement and wedding ring



45: Last sport you played?



Volleyball



46: Last song you sang?
 



Over You by Miranda Lambert



47: Favourite chat up line?



Are you sitting on the F5 key because that booty is refreshing



48: Have you ever used it?



Nope never have.
 



49: Last time you hung out with anyone?
 



A couple weeks ago



50: Who should answer these questions next?



+Vincent Mallone, +Carolina Collins, +Odette Molyneux


Fresh Start Challenge Day 12: My Ex


It would be so easy to fill this with hate and anger for my ex but that would make me no better than him. Do not get me wrong, I am angry that he treated me the way he did but all of the fault does not rest with him. Do I excuse the fact that he laid his hands on me? No. Do I think that things could have gone differently had I held my temper? Maybe.

The things I would say to my ex if given the chance would be that I forgive him and that I hope one day that he can admit his faults and forgive himself. I would also thank him for all he put me through because it taught me that some people are just looking for someone to fix them and I tried. Lord I tried to help him, I didn't realize at first that helping him was hurting me.




We were too volatile to date. As friends we were fine but dating was like a battlefield. Lines were drawn and crossed each and every second. I was mean to him and I did things I shouldn't have done and said things I shouldn't have said. Even in that there was a line drawn, I never imagined that one would be crossed.

He made me hate myself. After we broke up, I was left with so many questions. How could I have been so weak? How could I just let this happen? Why didn't I speak up sooner? Why didn't I send him to jail? The answers to all of these questions were the same: despite what he had done for me, I did care for him. I cared enough about him to believe when he said it wouldn't happen again, every time he said it and every time he lied.

If I saw him tomorrow, I would look him straight in his eyes and thank him. I would thank him for making me a stronger person. I would thank him for shoving me straight into the arms of someone who really does love and care for me. I would thank him for the lessons he taught me.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 11: It Should Be Illegal To Make Something This Good

Chicken Parmesan with Spaghetti



Breadcrumbs
4-5 Chicken Breasts
1 jar of Spaghetti Sauce
Mozzarella Cheese
Parmesan Cheese
1 Pack of Spaghetti Noodles

Preheat oven to 400 degrees (Farenheit)
Roll the chicken in the bread crumbs
Pour half the jar of spaghetti sauce in the bottom of a baking pan
Place the breaded chicken on top of the spaghetti sauce bed
Pour the remaining sauce over the chicken
Sprinkle heavily with Mozzarella and Parmesan Cheeses
Bake for 30-40 minutes or until chicken is cooked thoroughly.
Cook spaghetti noodles according to directions
Serve chicken over a bed of spaghetti

Fresh Start Challenge Day 10: Guilty As Charged!



1. Not wearing pants. Seriously if I can get away with it, they are coming off.

2. Riding in the window of a car/the tailgate of a truck. I know it's dangerous and I know I could fall but that's the thrill. Not to mention the wind blowing through my hair is soo liberating.

3. Watching old cartoons/movies. I know that I am over the age of 20. Do I care? No. Does my husband think I'm strange? Most likely but he watches Pokemon, Dragon Ball Z, and Yu-Gi-Oh so he has no room to speak.

4. Erotica. Whether it is literary or videos. The kind I read/watch will go with me to the grave.

5. Walmart Game Rooms. I am aware they are meant for kids but I love playing that Big Game Hunter one and racing games? Don't even go there :D

6. Ian Somerhalder. Need I say more?

7. YouTube make up videos. I could watch these all day long. Especially MadeYewLook and MadeULookTwice. Yes, they are the same person but the channels are completely different.

8. Reese's Cups. I can never, ever get enough of these. Ever.

9. Eye Shadow. I have a budding obsession for any and all types. Palettes, singles. Any color, any brand.

10. Red Vs Blue! I love those shows so so so much. I have watched every episode of all 11 seasons. 6 days til season 12!!

Fresh Start Challenge Day 9: Just A Kiss Good Night

Yep, I'm the boring one. My kiss was nothing like the one +Hunter talked about. My last kiss was last night before I went to bed.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 8: Don't Worry, Be Happy


There are many things that plague my mind at this moment. Next month, I have an appointment for tests to hopefully find out what caused me to have two miscarriages. I worry about the bills I have to pay and how I am going to pay them. I am more than a little worried about moving in September and whether Matt will be able to find a job up there. I worry that we won't fit in. Let's face it. I worry about everything.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 7: Family



I am the youngest of two girls. My parents figured that no more was needed after me, perfection and all that.

My sister and me grew up like normal siblings, fighting and stealing each other's favorite toys. The best memories I have of her growing up was her kicking me in the face (thanks for the bloody nose and lip!) I think I may have been tickling her feet or something; The other one was when she had made me mad so I chased her around beating her with a yearbook. As the years went by and circumstances happened that were beyond our control, we grew so far apart. However, now we are close again.

During my high school years, I met a girl that I never knew would be around to this day. She is my best friend, my out of order partner in crime, and my non blood sister. She has been there for me through everything. Yes, there have been times where we didn't talk either because we had lost contact or we were angry at each other for silly things. 9 years. That isn't a number that most high school friends see.

My grandma is a brave woman, raising 4 boys and then having to deal with their kids? Lord I don't know how she is sane. I don't really speak much to her since she moved out to California and I miss her like crazy. She was the one who had "the talk" with me when I came of age. She gave me books to read on it and told me to not let my parents find them.

My ex boyfriend turned best guy friend/brother deserves mentioning as well. His best memory comes from when he pulled a knife on my boyfriend at the time. I was so furious but looking back on it, I wish no one would have stopped him. He would never have hurt me but he would have physically moved me out of the way, even if he is shorter than me (hahaha oompa loompa!)

This girl has been a friend of mine for a couple years. At first she hated me because of Mr. Conehead (hee hee) but after getting past his lies and crap, we became fast friends. She is so sweet and soft spoken unless you mess with the people she cares for, then she will either hit you or cuss you out. My favorite memory of her would definitely have to be the sea turtle. She'll understand.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 3: Charity


It is sad for me to admit that I have never really given a lot to charity. Though soon I plan to change that. Below is a list of the ones I will be donating to in the near future. This list will be short but it will grow as I get more financially stable.

Break the Cycle - I wish I had known about this organization a couple years ago. The struggle to get out of a toxic or abusive relationship is harder than most people realize.

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital - I have heard so many heart breaking stories of children going through things most adults can't even fathom. I have friends who's siblings and children have gone through this.

RAINN - Being a victim of sexual assault, this holds very real and personal meaning to me.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 6: My Brionac



I have no shame in nicknaming him after a Yu-Gi-Oh card, especially since it is his favorite card. Yes, we both play. Him more seriously than I do. Now to the serious part.


Matt came into my life when I was recovering from a very cruel ex boyfriend. He held my hand as I would be curled up in a ball, crying and shaking unable to even speak because of the flashback I was having. He helped me in more ways than he will understand. He stood by me even after he knew the truth behind everything, when it was revealed why I had flashbacks. I regret him finding out the way he did. I should have told him, if not from the beginning then at least when he asked why I acted the way I did when his hand would accidentally brush my throat or when I felt trapped. Yes we have been through a lot between my past, his past, and our own past as a couple. We are always right there if the other is upset. Are there things that annoy me about him? Oh yes. I'm sure that I grind his nerves as well. We always work through the problems even though there are times where we want to strangle each other. Would I trade him for anything? No.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 5: Blah Blah Blah, Stop Talking



1) For the love of all things holy, please do not be a whiny pants. There is a difference in being sensitive and being Mr. Debbie Downer. Showing your emotions actually makes most women like/love you more.
2) Please understand that you are not God's gift to women. Confidence is one thing; Cockiness is simply a way of screaming "Hey look, I'm overcompensating for something!"
3) Men, please please please! Let the 90's go and pull up your freaking pants. Most women do NOT find this attractive and most of laugh at you as soon as you are out of ear shot.
4) There are things I just don't want to hear about. If it is obvious that I am not paying attention or only half listening, that is your cue to move on to a different subject.
5) I will never understand why guys do the whole manhood picture thing. Unless asked for, please keep your junk to yourself otherwise it is going to be expected for girls to show the picture to their friends. Do not be surprised when ridiculed later on.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 4: Bed Time

What I wear to bed all depends on what I have done that day and what the temperature is in my room when I go to bed. This can range anywhere from nothing at all to jeans, a t-shirt, and hoodie. Most of the time though it is pajamas or yoga pants and a t-shirt or tank top.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 2: Only When I'm Alone


I don't do it as much anymore but I would always take whatever I could find that could be spun around like a flag and spin it. It all stems from when I was in color guard when I was in high school. No broom, mop, or guitar was safe. I have even been known to spin pencils, pens, sticks, forks, whatever I can get my hands on to spin. I would even make up my own routines using these things. I suppose it is safe to say I may have a bit of an obsession with spinning things.

Fresh Start Challenge Day 1: What Is In A Name?



M-Magnificent

A-Affectionate

R-Reliable

I-Inquisitive

A-Adventurous